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29. How to Talk To Your Boss When You are Upset

When doctors want to address administration directly, they are faced with the question of how to go about this. If you emphasize your concerns and you are unprepared to handle your anger and frustration, you are likely to be dismissed, ignored, or worse, labeled as disruptive, which can ruin your reputation.

 


In this episode, Dr. Dike Drummond shares communication strategies when attempting to convey your message or address an issue with your senior leaders. During your meeting, resolve to talk about issues, to understand the other side, and to create consensus. Effective communication is an important element in building healthy relationships and cultivating a culture of change. 


 


“Nine times out of ten if you're wanting to go share a strong opinion with your senior leader up the chain of command, you're upset. It's because you've been witness to hypocrisy. Doctors cannot stand the presence of hypocrisy.” - Dike Drummond MD


 


Highlights:


  • (01:29) Doctors can’t stand hypocrisy

  • (03:48) Name your emotions

  • (04:26) Go deep Columbo

  • (06:19) Responses from senior leaders

 


Resources:


Disruptive Physician Toolkit https://bit.ly/DisruptivePhysicianToolKit


 


Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/HO1YrDcMai0


 


Learn more about Dr. Dike and The Happy MD: https://linktr.ee/dikedrummond


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Dike Drummond

Dike Drummond MD is a family doctor, ICF certified executive coach, trainer and consultant specializing in preventing physician burnout and physician leadership power skills. He is CEO and founder of TheHappyMD.com and has trained over 40,000 Physicians to recognize and prevent burnout in live trainings. He specializes in coaching for physician leaders to
- exercise influence in the c-suite
- earn the respect of your colleagues
- and incorporate Wellness and Balance on three levels: for yourself (and your family) your teams and your entire organization.
He is also a coach and advisor to Healthcare Startups whose product/service must be prescribed or delivered by physicians.